Rebetzin Maarasha
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🕯️Rebbetzin Stern(first wife of Rebbe Maarasha)📜Pedigree and marriageRebbetzin Stern was the daughter of Rabbi Chaim Schneur Zalman (son of the Third Rebbe, Tsemakh Tzedek). The wedding of the grandchildren of the great righteous took place in an atmosphere of great spiritual exaltation on Friday, 8 Sivan 5608 (1848) (chapter "Naso").🥀Disease testingThe joy was short-lived. It was just during the wedding week (Sheva Brachot) that the young bride fell seriously ill. Despite the prayers of the community and the efforts of loved ones, the disease did not recede. Just three months after the wedding, Rebetzin Sterna left this world.She was buried in Oela Lubavitcher Rebetzin.To ease his son's grief, his father, Tsemach Zedek, ordered that he be given a room next to his own so that he could enter at any time. So it was: when he came, the father showed him the amazing holy manuscripts of the previous Rebbe, in particular those that he did not show to his other sons.📜Rebbetzin Rivka — "mother" of the Tomhei Tmimim yeshivaRebetzin Rivka (1833/1835 - 10 Shvata 1914) was the wife of the fourth Lubavitcher Rebbe, Maarash (in his second marriage). She not only presided over the entire material life of the court in Lubavitches, but also became a living source of hundreds of stories that were later recorded by her grandson, Rebbe Rajac. With the founding of the Tomhei Timim yeshiva, she gave all her strength to create her kitchen and dormitories.⭐️Childhood and early yearsRebbetzin Rivka was born in Lubavitches in the family of Rabbi Aaron Alexandrov from Shklov and his wife, Rebbetzin Hai-Sari, daughter of Mitler Rebbe (the second head of Chabad). Her date of birth is either 1833 or 10 Cheshvan 1835.Rywka's life was full of trials from an early age. On 24 Iyara, her father died in 1837. In her youth, she absorbed her mother's stories about the chapters of Chabad and received from her a unique book written by her father, with many stories collected by him.In 1843, her mother married Rabbi Aaron Zaslavsky (son of Rebbetzin Freud), who raised Rivka for the next three years. Later, she remembered him with gratitude: "I remember him only with kindness." However, in 1845, her mother fell seriously ill and 10 Adara died in 1846. This event deeply affected Rywka and her sisters. For half a year, they lived with relatives, until in the month of Menachem Av in 1846, their grandmother, Rebetzin Sheina, took Ryvka and her sister Cvia-Hitel to her upbringing.💍Matchmaking & Wedding HistoryAfter the death of Rebetzin Sterna, Rebetzin Sheina suggested to her son-in-law, Rebbe Tsemach Tzedek, that she take his son Maarash with one of her orphaned granddaughters, Rivka or her older sister Zvia-Hitel. At that time, this proposal was not implemented due to other options.In 1849, a three-person rabbinical court met: Rabbi Abraham Hakoen (Rabbi Lubavitcher), Rabbi Zalman Minovic, and Rabbi Yehuda Leib Schneerson to discuss the union. During the discussion, Rebbe Maarash recalled saying at the age of three that he would take Ryvka as his wife. Then they laughed at him, but now he realized that it was not accidental. At the same time, he was wary of taking a younger sister earlier than an older one.The court decided to consider the sisters' candidacies, but did not make a final decision. When Rabbi Zemach Zedek found out about this, he was very happy and supported the proposal, praising their father, Rabbi Aaron. A few months later, the court ruled: given the child's case, Maarash and Ryvka should marry, regardless of the issue of seniority. At that time, Ryvka was about 13–15 years old.In the month of Nisan, 1850 (or 1849), a court decision was announced. Tsemakh Tzedek personally spoke with his older sister, promising to take care of her as a father, and received her consent. That evening there was a solemn betrothal ("Tnaim"). On Thursday, 11 Nisan 1850, the wedding of Rebbe Maarash and Rebetzin Rivka took place with great solemnity.sourceLubavitcher Calendar (Lubavhttps://t.me/+8KbDy9dQVqAxZWE8)