Day 15 Ava — Tu B'Av
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“There were no such feasts among the people of Israel as 15 Ava and Yom Kippur.”15 Ava — a holiday of love?In the Mishnah, in the treatise Taanit, it is said: “There were no such feasts among the people of Israel as the Fifteenthof Av and Yom Kippur.”❓What is this day — the Fifteenthof Av — and why is it compared to Yom Kippur?📌Our sages explain: Yom Kippur symbolizes the forgiveness of the sin of the golden calf. This forgiveness was granted by the Almighty on this very day, and it was then that Moshe Rabbeinu descended from Sinai with the new Tablets of the Covenant.Thefifteenthof Av also symbolizes the redemption of sin — the sin of the scouts who were sent to the Land of Israel and who slandered it. On thefifteenth of Av, it stopped taking the lives of those who left Egypt, and was the execution of the death sentence pronounced by the Almighty to the whole generation, which committed two grave sins: created a golden calf and did not want to go to Eretz Israel.📖Events that occurred on 15 ABASix joyful events took place on the fifteenth of Av.1. Those who left Egypt stopped dyingThere were 600,000 of them — men over the age of twenty. Every year, 15,000 people died on the Ninth of Av.In the fortieth year of wandering through the wilderness, when the people of Israel were already standing on the threshold of Eretz Yisrael, the last fifteen thousand people were waiting for theNinth of Av for their fate.However, the Almighty, mindfulof the many trials that our ancestors endured in the desert, had mercy on them and decided to keep them alive. Seeing that they were still alive, people thought that they had made a mistake in the calculations and the Ninth of Av had not yet come. But when the 15th of Av — the day of the full moon — came, doubts disappeared. It became quite clear that now it is really a month ago, the Ninth of Av has already passed — and no one has died.Therefore, the Fifteenthof Av forever remained a day of joy: the Almighty gave them life, and the sin of the scouts was finally atoned for.Now the words of the Mishnah become clear: there were no holidays in Israel like the Fifteenthof Av and Yom Kippur. For there is no greater joy than to be cleansed of sins: of the sin of the golden calf on Yom Kippur, and of the sin of the scouts on theFifteenth of Av.2–3. Two bans on marriages were liftedOn this day, the ban on marriages between men and women from different tribes of Israel was lifted, as well as the ban on the sons of the Benjamin tribe to marry girls from other tribes.As you know, in connection with the appeal of the daughters of Clofhad, which is described in the book Bemidbar, the Almighty forbade a girl who inherited her father's property to marry a man from the other tribe of Israel, so that land ownership would not pass from one tribe to another.Many years later, the tragic story of a concubine in Givi, described in the book of Shoftim, resulted in the other tribes of Israel recklessly swearing, “None of us will give our daughter in marriage to the knee of Benjamin.” Because of this, there was a danger that Benjamin's knee would disappear.Both of these prohibitions were lifted on the Fifteenth of Av. The people realized that the knee of Benjamin could not withstand this prohibition, and repented of the deed: "Today one knee is cut off from Israel!"But the question arose: “What can we do for them — we who have sworn by the nameof G-d that we will not give our daughters to them as wives?”The way out was found: the oath taken by the Jews then was not eternal and did not extend to future generations. A similar solution was found for the abolition of the ban on marriages between representatives of different tribes: it turned out that this ban was valid only for the generation that conquered the Land of Israel.І15 Awa sons of Benjamin were allowed to take wives of girls from the city of Shiloh, who went to the vineyards to drive round dances.Thus was preserved the existence of the whole tribe of Israel. At the same time, the ban on female heirs from one knee to marry men from the other knee has ceased to apply.This was the first unification of the clans of the nation of Israel in Jewish history, and the book of Shoftim calls it “a feast in thename of G-d.” Subsequently, according to the Mishna, it became customary to start matchmaking on this very day in order to create new Jewish families.4. Roads to Jerusalem were openedOn the fifteenth of Av, the Israelite king Hoshea ben Elah abolished the outposts on the roads leading to Judea.When the Jewish kingdom was divided into two — Judah and Israel — the first king of Israel, Jeroboam ben Nevat, feared that if his subjects came to Jerusalem three times a year for the holidays, their hearts would gradually return to the reign of the house of David. Therefore, he forbade them to go to Jerusalem, and to ensure the fulfillment of his order, he blocked the roads that led to Judah.Instead of the Jerusalem Temple, he established in two cities - Dana and Beit Eli - idols in the form of bodies and ordered to worship them. This is how the once unified state finally disintegrated: in Judea, the only God continued to be served, and idolatry spread in the kingdom of Jeroboam.However, the last king of Israel, Hosea ben Ela, removed roadblocks, allowing the people to make a pilgrimage to Jerusalem. So he tried to reduce the gulf that separated the two kingdoms.5. The gathering of firewood for the temple altar was coming to an endOn the fifteenth of Av, they finished gathering wood for the altar in the Temple, about which the Torah says: "The constant fire lit on the altar must not go out."At the beginning of the Second Temple period, most of the Land of Israel was devastated, so gathering firewood for the altar was an extremely difficult task. However, the people took up this work with great zeal, which was often associated with mortal danger.Those who delivered the collected firewood to the Temple were honored with the opportunity to bring a special sacrifice of thanks to the Most High - "korban etzim", that is, "sacrifice of firewood".The last day to gather firewood for the altar was the 15th of Ava, as the heat began to subside from then on.The fact is that only firewood that did not contain worms could be used for the altar. After 15 Ava, the probability of their appearance in wood increased as humidity increased and nights became colder. Therefore, the Fifteenth of Ava was also a temple holiday.6. The martyrs of Beitar were buriedThe martyrs of Beitar were buried on the fifteenth of Av. In memory of this, the sages added the last, fourth blessing to the Birkat ha-Mazon, the blessing after the meal.The Romans forbade burying the bodies of Beitar's defenders. But on the 15th of Ava, a year after the fall of the fortress, this ban was lifted.This event was a double miracle. First, the Almighty softened the hearts of the ruthless Romans. Secondly, it appeared that, despite the long time during which the bodies remained in the open air, accessible to wild animals and birds, they did not undergo decomposition.Therefore, the words that became his name were added to the fourth blessing: "Good and He who does good." "Good" - because the Almighty saved the body from decomposition; "He who does good" - because He provided for their burial.And to this day we celebrate the Fifteenth of Ava as a joyful day. On this day they do not recite Tahanun and do not indulge in sorrow.The circle closesFrom the Fifteenth of Av begins the spiritual preparation for the month of Elul and the Terrible Days.The length of the day is gradually decreasing, and the nights are getting longer. The time for summing up is approaching. Nature itself contributes to this: field work ends, the heat subsides, and it becomes easier for a person to focus on thoughts.Starting with the Fifteenth of Av, it is customary to wish each other a good year. The gematria of the wish: "May G-d grant that you will be recorded for a happy year in the Book of Life and that this record will be sealed!" - is equal to the gematria of the words "Fifteenth Ava" - 928.We find another hint of the approaching Terrible Days in the 29th chapter of the book of Dvarim:"You all stand today before your G-d: the heads of your tribes, your elders and those in charge of order, all the men of Israel, your children and your wives, as well as the proselytes who live in your land - from the woodcutter to the water-carrier - to enter into an alliance with your G-d, in the sworn alliance that G-d makes with you today."The mention of the woodcutter is an allusion to the 15th of Av, when the gathering of wood for the altar in the Temple was completed. The mention of the water-carrier is an allusion to the day of Oshan Rab, when water was poured on the altar. And during all this time - from the 15th of Av until Oshan Rab - "you all stand together before your G-dThe atmosphere of the days of reading slikhots and pleas for mercy, the atmosphere of the days of judgment is returning. We are again facing the new year - with all its holidays and fasts, days of spiritual joy and days of sorrow. It's almost time to take stock of the past year.The annual circle ends — and a new one begins. A new year is coming with its blessings.source: https://toldot.com