Heroes don't die: the story of Dmytro Violet, who died defending Ukraine
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Heroes don't die: the story of Dmytro Fialka, Maccabi Beer-Sheva's children's coach, who died defending UkraineHe was born in Lviv, became an Israeli citizen, served in the IDF, brought up young football players in Maccabi Beersheba, and when Ukraine was under threat, returned to stand up for it.Voluntarily joined the Ukrainian Volunteer Corps "Right Sector", helped train recruits, and later signed a contract with the Armed Forces of Ukraine and became a platoon commander of the International Legion of Territorial Defense.He died near Bakhmut, remaining faithful to the two countries that became his native land. His story is not only about courage, but also about responsibility, choice and honor.📍 Lviv: The Beginning of the JourneyDmytro Bohdanovych Fialka was born on June 21, 1983 in Lviv.It was here that his childhood, first football training, friends appeared and character was formed. He grew up in a family where work, responsibility and decency were valued. Friends recalled that from an early age, Dmytro was calm, collected and never fussed — at first he thought, and then acted.When he was about fifteen, thefamily repatriated to Israel. A new country, a new language and a new life became a difficult test, which only tempered it.📍 Israel: The Service That Shaped CharacterIn Israel, Dmytro graduated from school, received citizenship and served for three years in the Israel Defense Forces (IDF).He served in the Nahal Brigade and fought against Hezbollah during the Second Lebanon War.It was there that he learned discipline, restraint, responsibility, and trust in his fellow men.Later, he told his friends:“The army made me a man. I don't regret a single day.”After completing the service, Dmytro returned to the business he loved most — football.📍 Coach at Maccabi BeershebaFrom 2008 to 2013, Dmytro worked as a coach of the youth teams of the Maccabi Beer-Sheva club.In the official database of the Israeli Football Association, he was listed as דימה פיאלקה (Dima Fialka).He taught children not only football skills, but also respect, discipline and responsibility.One of his pupils was Or Dadia, who later played for Hapoel Beersheba. He recalled:“Dima was my first coach. He could explain without shouting. After he went to Ukraine, we still corresponded. He wondered how I was playing. I'll never forget it.”For Dmytro, football was much more than a profession. It was a way to educate people by example.📍 Return to UkraineIn 2015, Dmytro returned to Lviv to care for his sick grandmother.He continued to work as a children's coach — first at the Dynamo Lviv club, and then at CYSS FC Lviv.Colleagues mentioned that he always came to work first and was the last.In training, he often repeated:“If you want to be listened to, be an example.”He lived modestly, loved his family, children and football.Israeli journalists later wrote about him:“He lived between two flags, but he didn't betray either one.”📍 War - Volunteer and CommanderOn February 24, 2022, Dmytro did not wait for the summons.He voluntarily joined the Volunteer Ukrainian Corps "Right Sector", where he trained recruits.Subsequently, he signed a contract with the Armed Forces of Ukraine and headed a platoon of the International Legion of Territorial Defense, a unit in which Ukrainians and volunteers from around the world served.His call sign was "Thorn".It was in Lviv that he met his future wife Eve. They created a family, they had a daughter and a son.Dmytro spoke little about the war.One day he wrote to his friends:“There are no strangers here. Everyone is their own, if they are nearby.”The brothers mentioned that he always remained calm, did not lose his composure and never left his people.💔 Death near BakhmutOn September 1, 2022, Dmytro Fialko died near Bakhmut while performing a combat mission.According to official reports of Ukrainian and Israeli media, he received a fatal gunshot wound to his head.His body remained in the territory occupied by Russian troops.For six weeks, relatives and volunteers fought for his return.On October 11, 2022, Dmytro's remains were returned to Ukraine as part of the exchange of bodies of the dead.This was reported by leading Ukrainian and Israeli publications.📍 Two countries — one painIn Beersheba, where Dmytro's mother and younger brother lived, relatives began to raise funds to transport his body to Israel.However, Eve's wife made a different decision.She said that Dmytro should rest in Ukraine — on the land he defended until his last breath.There was no controversy in this story.There was only pain, which was divided between the two countries.💔 Last RoadOn October 21, 2022, Dmytro Fialka was buried in the Jewish section of the Yaniv Cemetery in Lviv.Relatives, brothers, representatives of the Jewish community, Israeli diplomats, volunteers and his former pupils came to say goodbye to him.Two flags — Ukrainian and Israeli — fluttered nearby.Not as a symbol of division, but as evidence that one person can sincerely love two homelands and remain faithful to both.He did not seek fame or heroic rank.He just did what he thought was his duty.MemoryAfter the death, the nameof Dmytro Fialka was included in the memorial lists of the International Legion of the Armed Forces of Ukraine.Dozens of publications have written about him in Ukraine and Israel — from sports portals to the largest information media.The Israel Football Federation confirmed that he was the coach of Maccabi Beersheba.Former pupils, football players and coaches published his photos with simple words:"Dima Fialka — forever coach".In Lviv, he is remembered not only as a warrior.First of all — as a Teacher who knew how to educate not with fear, but with respect. As a person who has proven with his own life: true leadership begins with a personal example.